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Published: 28 February 2023

Lower house vote on Thursday, 8 August 2019

For the abortion to birth bill

Aitchison J,  Anderson K, Ayres S, Barilaro J  Barr C, Berejiklian G, Butler R, Car P, Catley Y, Chanthivong A, Clancy J, Constance A, Cooke S, Cotsis S, Crakanthorp, Crouch A (teller), Daley M, Dalton H, Dominello V, Donato P, Doyle T, Evans L, Greenwich A, Griffin J, Gulaptis C, Hancock S, Harris D, Harrison J, Haylen J, Hazzard B, Henskens A, Hoenig R, Kean M, Leong J, Lynch P, Marshall A, McKay J, Mehan D, Minns C, O'Neill M, Park R, Parker J, Pavey M, Piper G, Provest G, Saffin J, Saunders D, Scully P, Singh G, Smith T, Tesch L, Toole P, Voltz L, Ward G, Warren G, Washington K, Watson A (teller), Williams L, Wilson F

Against the abortion to birth bill

Atalla E, Bali S, Bromhead S, Conolly K (teller), Davies T, Dib J, Elliott D, Finn J, Gibbons M, Johnsen M, Kamper S, Lalich N (teller), Lee G, Lindsay W, McDermott H, McGirr J, Mihailuk T, Perrottet D, Petinos E, Preston R, Roberts A, Sidgreaves P, Sidoti J, Smith N, Speakman M, Stokes R, Taylor M, Tuckerman W, Upton G, Williams R, Zangari G

In the Chair: Mr Jonathan O'Dea

Published: 10 February 2023

By Augusto Zimmerman

Submissions on the Australian government’s draft Family Law Amendment Bill are due by Feb. 27. There is much to be concerned about in Attorney-General Mark Dreyfus’s draft amendment. But perhaps its most problematic aspect is the proposal to remove the order for “equal shared parental responsibility.”

As noted by Patrick Parkinson, a leading family law academic, the draft released on Jan. 30 “stripped almost all references which encourage the meaningful involvement of both parents in relations to the child after separation.”

One of the well-known facts about divorce is that children often adapt better to their parents’ separation if they are allowed to have a continuing contact with both of their parents. Indeed, a recurring theme in the field of child psychoanalysis is that children of divorced parents often desire to develop a meaningful relationship with both of their parents.

Richard Warshak, an American clinical and research psychologist, says that sharing overnight care is generally not problematic even for the very little child. In normal circumstances, he explains, little children are more likely to do better if they have overnight contact with both parents.

This conclusion is endorsed by more than 110 leading researchers and practitioners, including Barry Nurcombe, an emeritus professor of child and adolescent psychiatry at the University of Queensland.

According to Nurcombe: “The experts who signed the report are amongst the best in the world in their fields … The paper highlights the fact that current policies relating to overnight contact with … young children have been excessively affected by a misplaced concern to the mother.”

In this sense, one of the most disturbing trends in contemporary society is the increasing distance, if not complete alienation, of fathers from their biological children.

For divorced or separated men, a particular cause of dismay and distress may be the loss of contact with children they have loved, protected, and helped raise.

An Uphill Battle

In Australia, thousands of fathers have had their contact with their children limited to a few hours and often spend huge sums on lawyers, fighting to be able to care for their children overnight.

One can hear the testimony of good fathers whose spouses have run off and been awarded the sole custody of their biological children while they are expected to pay full support.

The more a mother can restrict the father’s access to the children, the more financial reward she receives in the form of compulsory support payments extracted from the father.

Add false accusations of domestic violence, and then the father will be required to prove his innocence before he is allowed within 100 metres of his children.

Indeed, a restraining order, even when based on allegations that are unsubstantiated, is a powerful weapon in the fight for primary custody and restricted access.

David Collier, a retiring judge from the Parramatta Family Court, explains that false accusations of domestic violence have become a “major weapon” in the war between parents who wish to secure full custody of their children.

Bettina Arndt, an Australian writer who specialises in gender issues, has also noted that there is a problem.

“Surveys of magistrates have revealed most agree that false allegations of violence are being used to gain an advantage in family law battles. That’s why most family law cases now include allegations of violence. Such an allegation often results in good fathers having to pay for supervised contact to see their children, and most end up losing contact. The current system is set up to disadvantage fathers, and the proposed changes will make it so much worse.”

In its review of submissions to a government inquiry about changes in the family law system, the Australian Family Association (AFA) noted the prevalence of a feminist view among pro-women groups, which appears to consider that children are “all-right” without any contact with their biological fathers.

One such submission went so far as to postulate that fathers should have no contact whatsoever with their children after the divorce. By contrast, AFA has noted how the father groups have a special focus on the needs of the child, particularly meaningful contact with the fathers and emotional support to their children.

System Overlooking Devastating Effects on Good Fathers

The evidence is overwhelming that when marriages fail, Australian fathers are much less likely to be awarded custody of their children and far more likely to be displaced from the family home.

Since the system tends to favour women with the custody of children and the family home (even where men are unemployed and have nowhere else to go), these are significant factors in the growth of male homelessness and suicide in Australia.

Indeed, suicide is the number one killer of Australian men under the age of 44. Such an increase in male suicide is at least partially due to relationship breakdown and parental alienation, coupled with poorer support among divorced males.

According to research by the Australian Institute of Suicide Research and Prevention, almost half of all the male suicides in this country are directly linked to family law issues such as child custody and pending legal matters.

As Arndt points out:

“There is solid evidence that the major cause of suicide in this country is not mental health problems but rather the toll taken by a family break-up, where fathers often face mighty battles trying to stay part of their children’s lives, up against a biased family law system which fails to enforce contact orders, and often facing false violence allegations which are now routinely used to gain an advantage in family court battles.”

In this sense, some fathers who know about these serious problems are trapped in coercive relationships due to the entirely reasonable fear of losing access to their children.

There has also been an increase in cases of men falling victim to the controlling behaviour of women who use their children as leverage to threaten their fathers into staying in abusive relationships.

“Family courts, particularly where children are involved, are quite renowned for supporting women,” says Kate Ryan (pdf), a family lawyer, who also believes that “women know that and use it and know that their children are a hard-hitting point, yet that’s manipulation.”

Although the media, government inquiries, and pronouncements by politicians appear to suggest that child abuse is perpetrated overwhelmingly by biological fathers, decades of research indicate that children who live without their biological fathers are at significantly higher risk of being abused.

According to Parkinson, “girls, in particular, are at much greater risk of sexual abuse from the mother’s new partner than from their own father.”

Naturally, sensible people would see this as a pointer to the protective nature of the bond between daughters and fathers. Nonetheless, defending the important role played by fathers in the protection of their children is not part of the prevailing agenda.

Instead of addressing the problems described above, the present proposal of the Australian government to remove the order of equal shared parental responsibility provision will inevitably lead to even more unjust outcomes for both children and good parents.

Published: 06 February 2023

NSW Premier Dominic Perrottet needs to reveal the answers to the 15 questions Peter Dutton asked Anthony Albanese about his Voice to Parliament proposal.

On Friday last week, Perrottet signed up to support the divisive Voice proposal at the national cabinet meeting.

“Peter Dutton has put 15 sensible questions to Anthony Albanese about the Voice but Albanese has refused to answer these,” said FamilyVoice NSW State Director Graeme Mitchell.

“Given the NSW premier has signed up to support the Voice, he needs to reveal what answers he received from Albanese about the 15 matters before committing to support the proposal.

“Australians should not be kept in the dark.  They deserve to have details before they vote.

“If Perrottet has not received any answers, he needs to explain why he signed up in support without any detail,” Mitchell added.

Published: 24 January 2023

This country is in a cultural war. Our traditional values and cultural icons are being not only challenged but replaced by a vastly inferior values system.  

Victorian Premier Daniel Andrews decided not to hold an Australia Day parade in Melbourne last year and looks to be doing the same this year.  

Meanwhile statues of Captain Cook were splashed with red paint and a large crowd protested in the CBD with placards attacking the celebration of ”Invasion Day.” And the Federal Government paid $20 million so that now anybody can fly the Aboriginal flag without infringing copyright. 

This was on top of the disgraceful burning of the main doors at old Parliament House in Canberra.  

The left on the political spectrum are determined to undermine those values we have held dear as a nation over many decades.  Left leaning government when they have gained office at both state and federal levels, have poured copious amounts of taxpayers money into left wing causes.  Worse still is that conservative governments have kept being generous to these groups under various community gifts and grants and leave in place many social `reforms’ implemented by `progressive governments’ over the years. 

Vociferous minority groups receive all the attention and their priorities over time have replaced the priorities off the silent majority. To put it in perspective, the following were the norms when I was growing up but since then our cultural norms have been mostly disregarded. 

When I was growing up everyone was proud to be an Australian and celebrated Australia Day with parades and various social activities. We had one flag – not three. The roles of men and women were regarded as complementary and it was widely regarded as a man’s role to be the principal breadwinner for his family. A woman’s role was centred around the home, supporting her husband and raising her family. Marriage was seen as a union between a man and a woman, everyone saw this as natural and normative. Formal childcare was a rarity and only used by well off families. 

At this stage – Australia was self-sufficient and had a genuine full employment where unemployed rates were around 2% and not the 5% as claimed today. 

Fast forward forty years later and conservative values have been decimated and disregarded.  

It’s tempting to think that feminist, gay rights and Indigenous demands in their latest manifestations will collide with human nature and common sense once too often and then just go away. A collective cry of "enough" will arise and, magically, young women will no longer be made to feel foolish about wanting marriage and children.  And men will no longer have to worry about "offending" their dates and watching every word they utter, and freedom and rationality will return to everyday life.  

Alas, this hope might seem to be bolstered by the failure of egalitarian zealotry in Australia, Sweden and the USA to radically alter the basic structures of society.  Unfortunately, such hope is undermined by the extent to which pressure groups have already won the day in this country.   Today no teacher or public speaker dares use "he", “Chairman”, “policeman”, or “fireman”.  Critics must apologise before praising books, movies, or ideas that deviate from the politically correct line.

Left wing political correctness ideology now shapes to an unprecedented degree the rights and duties that govern institutional and social life. Once in place, inclusive language, acknowledging  Aboriginal land claims, hiring quotas for females in education and employment, textbook censorship, court jurisdiction over private association, and all the other travesties of liberalism to which Australians have become numb, are likely to stay in place long after they will have clearly have seen to have failed to achieve the unachievable. But this will not deter the left, they will press on regardless with their jihad until they crush the last vestiges of conservatism and the Christian life view.

Traditional values based on the Judeo-Christian life-view, the roles such as mother and father, husband and wife are not just arbitrary categories into which people are squeezed.  Rather they are broad patterns and principles of behaviour which define the optimum ways in which men and women can relate together, enjoy intimacy, and provide a context in which children can grow up healthy and strong. The traditional roles of men and women reflect a vital component in stabilising family life and protecting vulnerable children; these roles are the crucial pivot - the foundation - upon which both family and society revolve.  

It’s time governments, and the silent majority, stood up for traditional family values and stopped pampering to the destructive leftist agenda.

Peter Downie

National Director

FamilyVoice Australia